A Cup of Tea

if you're still struggling with consent just imagine instead of initiating sex you're making them a cup of tea you say hey would you like a cup of tea and they go oh my god I would love a cup of tea thank you then you know they want a cup of tea if you say hey would you like a cup of tea and they're like uh you know I'm not really sure then you can make them a cup of tea or not but be aware that they might not drink it and if they don't drink it then and this is the important bit don't make them drink it just because you made it doesn't mean you're entitled to watch them drink it and if they say no thank you then don't make them tea at all just don't make them tea don't make them drink tea don't get annoyed at them for not wanting tea they just don't want tea okay they might say yes please that's kind of you and then when the tea arrives they actually don't want the tea at all sure that