Letts 2020 Legacy - Week to View Planner with Appointments, Maps, English, 10.25 x 8.25 inches, Black (C081222-20)

From St. Paul, Colleen writes, “Dear Mary, I’m not sure what to do. My mother wants me to be the executor of her estate. She says I am the responsible one out of all five siblings. I don’t want to do it. My siblings already dislike me and I fear this would drive an even bigger wedge between us. How can I gently tell my mother 'thanks, but no thanks?'" An interesting problem, Colleen. You don’t mention why it is that your siblings don’t like you. There could be many reasons. You might have been a tattletale, you might have been the oldest, or the youngest, or the one who got the naturally curly hair. Or the one who can eat anything and never gain an ounce, in which case your siblings are absolutely justified in their dislike. You also don’t mention the size of the estate. If it is considerable, well, your siblings already don’t like you so I would say it would be kind of you to go ahead