3.5 inch TFT LCD Touch-Screen Module 480 x320 Resolution for Arduino Uno Mega2560 Board

I've had this three point six inch TFT four wire resistive touchscreen for over a year but I've never had time to really look into it partly because I know a lot of people have had hassles getting it up and running it's not straightforward and there's so many variations and driver chips I got mine on eBay and it's from MCU friend comm tft-lcd for Arduino Uno which is what I'm using it has an on-board SD card and communication pins here then it looks like an 8-bit parallel LCD bus and some LCD control and reset pins and power ground how hard can it be to make this work with this especially when there's so many drivers out there the first thing that confused me is which way do I plug it in these headers do look very you know layout ish but they're not exact so it just ends up you line it up so the back pins here on the module go to the back pins here on the Arduino and it looks like there